I've been in those shoes yes, while the relationship wasn't serious, I was in love with him at some point, or maybe the idea of him, who knows, but I ended things.


Good decision, because I knew we were not long term material, even though he was indulging in future speak. Our fundamentals / values were just too different. For example, his definition of cheating was different to mine.


The split was amicable, we remained friends, he got married, moved abroad, and now I see him from time to time when he visits his family.


Sometimes, like in these situations, you just have to do what has to be done, its best for everyone at the end of the day.