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Originally Posted by healingme4me
No need to feel guilt. I understand how that is, however. It's taboo territory to snoop on others and when in a relationship there runs the risk of being accused of being insecure. Insecurities don't form in a vacuum. And of course, the trust dissolved, as well. Which isn't a great place to build a solid foundation. So that fact gives a feeling of inner conflict. Perhaps it goes against the grains of your own internal integrity? Or something, at the very least, taught not to do in a relationship.
Was discovering the Truth, really a mistake?
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No, I'm not saying it was a mistake. I also don't think i was insecure if i was that I would've always been accusing him of something and I didn't do any of that so i'm not sure how you came up with insecure. Like i said i started to notice his actions not matching his words so i explored, found photos of him and another woman and her kids, and confronted him. I wouldn't have confronted him without proof. He lied about very simple things like whereabouts. I had a feeling something wasn't right so i had a right to try to see why i had that feeling. He was lying and i almost feel like you're saying I shouldn't have snooped and should've ignored it. So i should've let him continue to lie!??? The only thing i feel bad about is not finding out about him and this fiance sooner.he was lying from day one because he wasn't single from day one