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Old Dec 08, 2015, 05:32 AM
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Originally Posted by Ladytmt View Post
No, I'm not saying it was a mistake. I also don't think i was insecure if i was that I would've always been accusing him of something and I didn't do any of that so i'm not sure how you came up with insecure. Like i said i started to notice his actions not matching his words so i explored, found photos of him and another woman and her kids, and confronted him. I wouldn't have confronted him without proof. He lied about very simple things like whereabouts. I had a feeling something wasn't right so i had a right to try to see why i had that feeling. He was lying and i almost feel like you're saying I shouldn't have snooped and should've ignored it. So i should've let him continue to lie!??? The only thing i feel bad about is not finding out about him and this fiance sooner.he was lying from day one because he wasn't single from day one
That's not the point I'm making at all. You were certainly betrayed, of course you don't want to feel that way. I misunderstood your meaning about not wanting to 'feel this way', I could have asked and avoided upsetting you. I'm sorry for not asking. I've personally been attacked by outsiders, like the woman at your work for not blindly trusting when there was someone else in a sense. Accused of those things that I mentioned. It's a game these people play, that's all.

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