wow. that took a LOT of courage. maybe i should try something like that. i couldnt do the most embarrassing thing because i wouldnt know which to pick. lol. but something i absolutely dont want to tell her... maybe i just should even if it is for no particular reason at the time other than to 'break the taboo' as you say...
thanks much for that idea stefano. and fyi im just starting my second year of T.
thanks again
biiv