Your profile sounds like a business resume. Men love adventurous women and brilliant at the same time. Most women are put off by the intellectual part. They are more into the earthy feeling part. You mention a lot of travel. Men love to travel, women tend to nest and nurture. It sounds like a career woman potentially looking for husband material. Make it more down to earth my friend, from the heart and less from the head. That might help. Also gay women are not Queer. That is for the men mostly. Gay women are gay. period.