Skeezyks thank you for your response. It wasn't harsh at all. The truth is what I came here for after all! I don't smoke weed, so I am naive to its effects long term. He's been smoking daily, sometimes a few times a day, for years. He admits he's addicted, but won't get help. He never really wanted to go out or do much. I should've seen the signs of depression but I didn't. I know 7 months isn't long, but we've been friends through mutual friends for like three years. So the harsh cut off, hurts, and is confusing.

She may be a novelty. But it's been a few months now. Maybe he's actually cured and happy because of her. Is that even possible? I didn't think another person could magically fix drug addiction and depression. It just hurts, and doesn't do good things for my depression, to feel I was left for someone else and lied to. He didn't have a sex drive, and the second I'm out the door he's got one for her? Just so confusing to me. My self esteem is totally shot here.