It's really hard to be lied by someone you loved the most but I think you need to let go of that. Forget it. I'm thinking your husband lied to you because you may not want to marry him if he told you he wasn't virgin anymore. Make sense? Besides, that lie didn't bring you any good. It just brought you anxiety and paranoia. And it just seems you are not secure of his love for you. Everyone has a past. You need to accept that. You need to move on.

If you can't let go, then talk to your husband. Tell him everything you feel at this moment. I hope he would understand. For better or for worse, right?