Thank you, but regardless of whether other kids have done worse than her, she has been diagnosed as having a mental illness. I don't explain well enough on here to do it justice. It's not just rebellion. It's crazy stuff she does then acts like it never even happened. I simply can't do it justice by typing it. If I could I would. I have so much anecdotal evidence from observing her that I know its above and beyond any kind of teenager stuff. She cannot cope with things. She is struggling with life big time. I just think if people keep telling me she's just a normal teenager it's not helping and its making me feel like there's no point me writing on here at all.