The game they are playing is the game they will be playing for about the next 40 years of your life! When you are in your 50's you will have men in their 80's slobbering all over you. If you are flirty guys will flirt back. If you don't want attention, don't flirt. But once you have started flirting it is kind of hard to reverse it. I was a flirt when I was young and I can be a old flirt now, and it is all the same. Flirting is flirting at any age, and it doesn't have to mean anything, really. It can just be a form of communication, and sort of flattery. You need to be smart about communication between gals and guys. If a guy really, really starts bothering you in a creepy way, even if you have been slightly flirty, and you want it to stop, then stop flirting, and if the guy bothers you, then use your words girl, and tell him his attention is not desired. I saw a guy about 60 flirting with a cashier about your age at our local grocery store. It was obvious he was making her feel uncomfortable. I told her later, to use her words. She doesn't have the be nice. Personally it makes me sick to see men of that age acting that way around young girls. It's so disrespectful when the girl is just trying to do her job.

I can't think of a normal red-blooded 30-something male who would not respond to flirtiness from a young girl. It is just human nature. But a 30-something guy who would sleep with a girl not even yet out of her teens??? That's creepy and there is something wrong with the guy. Stay away. It's really not going to be an adventure. It could turn out really weird like the guy trying to control you or something. No. I would definitely steer clear and wouldn't flirt with the boss or friends of the boss. No. Just, no.

If you are sexually overt (out there) with 30 something guys do they think you are slutty? Probably.

Please protect your youth and beauty. A bit of being flirty is okay but I would say tone it down. Best to nix it totally with boss and friends of boss.

Best to get good at this game now. The "game" of flirting is a form of communication that doesn't have to lead to sex. The game is men will get turned on by almost any attention from a female who is nice looking, and younger. The game is men will flirt with a woman they think is sexy but that has nothing to do with whether or not they respect her or even desire to have sex with her. A "gentlemen" may be ever so mildly flirty but would never be inappropriate. A gentlemen would not be interested in robbing the cradle as he would have way too much class for that.

Remain in control. There are abusive men out there and it would be nice if you could lead a life where you would never, ever have to be in contact with that.