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Originally Posted by unaluna
This. You feel this way for x reason, he acts this way for y reason. Not exactly the same reasons.
Like my landlord pushing me about the apartment inspection. He has his reasons, but they trigger mother stuff in me. Yeah theyre both mean and im a slob, but its like im two different people - one reacts to my mother issues, one reacts to the landlords issues.
Eta - so you feel this way cuz hey we are girls and were undervalued in your home etc. And you feel this way because T has some unresolved issues too.
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Oh! Ok I see what you are saying. Because I felt my brother was the most important child and I had to sacrifice my uni money to bail him out of gaol/jail. Plus a whole lot of other carp...So I'm reacting to T because of my mother issues but the only way I seem to be able to express this is to argue over scheduling issues?