Interesting could you give some examples? in a private message if you want. I could write a book on unfinished goals large and small but yeah that's a self fulling thing. I'm finally getting around to forming a jazz/rock band but I have to keep slapping myself in the face to realize I'm at the bottom of the heap skill wise. It's like a baby chicken who thinks it's a Condor and has to watch it doesn't make a fool of it'self.