I put the trigger on just in case. I don't want to be graphic on here, so I will just say I'm having problems feeling anything. By myself, I mean. T and I have talked about this subject before. But this time she said she couldn't help me, and said I should get a book! I wanted to blurt out, "well, how do YOU do it?" but I restrained myself. Then, in my email, I wrote that I had to stop myself from asking her that. In the past, she told me about a store to buy something, so it's not like she doesn't know how to offer me information. I'm not against books for information either.

I'm frustrated that she didn't want to explore emotional reasons, just suggested I read a book! Maybe that's why I wanted to cross a boundary! I know her sex life is none of my business of course! I don't even care; I was just looking for help! I am kind of annoyed with her for her response.

A side point is my noticing how I've changed! I won't post graphic details here, but I did with T, and I wasn't even embarrassed! That's amazing!

Not sure if I'm looking for help in this thread. Maybe I should post in the forum specifically for this subject.

Has anyone else talked with their T about sexual problems?