Are you taking birthcontrol pills? I find it really decreases my libido.

I have psychological issues with sex but its hard to talk about it, I have tried but it was more like saying - I have issues. And thats all. Im afraid to talk more about it but I talked to my gynecologist who told me to take painkillers but T thinks its crazy, its all we discused. I dont know how talking about it could help me except if t suggested me something but he said I dont need sexual partner if it hurts physically and I can do it by myself.

Maybe your T doesnt know how to help you and thinks that this book is good for you. Maybe its worth to read it and then discuss it with your T.