Some people are just naturally flirty and teasers. I just want to say again that I think there is such a thing as harmless flirting. But it has to do with context. Sometimes flirting gets favors. Once when I was young I took a cab from the airport and ended up not having enough money. I got a little flirty and offered the cabbie a big juicy apple I had been saving as my lunch as part payment, and he was fine with that. Even though I am an older flirt now, I continually get good deals. If merchandise is a bit frayed I will ask for a discount, and get it. I personally don't think flirting is always sexual, but I do think what we are talking about on this thread is sexy flirting. So yes, sexy flirting is dangerous flirting, and I am really happy that this person engendered so much great advice from level-headed folk. Like no flirty with the bossy.