I get it that he is difficult and his behavior is uncalled for but I just don't understand the whole dynamics of the relationship

I don't know.. My mom was very ill this past year and is finally free of cancer [emoji122]🏻[emoji122]🏻[emoji122]🏻now we do ask if she needs anything but when she was ill we never asked. Me and my brother just did. You just do. My mom is the kind of person that doesn't want others to bother so if we asked she would just say no thanks. Of course we were there. No need to ask.

I am somewhat surprised you needed to know if he needs anything. Toothbrush? Wouldn't you know if he has one? If my BF got ill ( I pray he doesn't) I would know what he needs and likes and what to get him and would not need to ask and we don't even live together and haven't been dating for long. I would also be in the hospital. I wouldn't ask.

I'd feel awkward just sit home especially if you do not work and don't have kids at home don't need to run anywhere ( sometimes we can't take time off work right away or can't get babysitter) while he is in the hospital sick

You two live together and he supports you! It just seems strange to me. You are a committed couple yet something is just off.

I do understand your feelings too especially with this mother stirring the pot. But I just don't get the dynamics between you two

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