Well, lol, where are the European girls to bust you out for snooping, I'm sure they'll show up shortly to let you know your the bad person in this story. I did same thing with my ex, who I still see for lack of my ability to find anyone else to drive me batshit crazy which seems to be a turn on from being verbally and physically abused by women as I grew up. Men are pretty visual, sometimes they just want to look but now you know to watch him, and ask him if he's satisfied with his sex life, who knows what his story is, communication my love, talk to him. And, be frank, STD are not cool..