Idk if its just me or not, but from my observations women/girls do this alot, and I find it extremely unfair toward the men they're with.


Imagine being blindsided by a breakup only to realize your gf or wife had been planning it for months, cruelty is what I call that.

I mean I get that there are circumstances which makes an instant exit impossible, like abuse, financial difficulties, children, but not wanting to be alone, and essentially using your partner, are not extenuating circumstances.

If you don't want to be with someone anymore, say so and move on. Don't string them along until something better knocks on your door.