(((Terrilynn))) wow that couch chair thing really resonates with me. Theres a particular italian term for it which basically translates to riding someones butt. Family conversations are not meant to be Abbott and Costello routines but thats what they were like when we were growing up, just waiting for someone to slip up so you could pounce. My t - poor guy - has spent ten years just modeling more ladylike behavior for me!