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Originally Posted by TerriLynn
Well I am GLAD that it isn't just me being a *****! I have recently been able to identify it as it is going through my head and stopping it from coming out of my mouth! My husband appreciates it! I have to tell myself that it really just isn't that important if he was sitting in the couch or chair. For some reason I see it as a lie. I guess we will work on that one too!
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Its more related to not being able to depend on people. If you trusted him to have your back, you wouldnt have to be hypervigilant. Your parent couldnt trust THEIR parent, so they trained you not to trust them? Thats how it happened with me. You cant get me NEAR one of those "fall backwards i'll catch you" trust exercises!!