UGH, I'm totally with you! My husband moved us 5 years ago and I HATE it here. I feel I really gave it an honest try. My daughter is also mildly unhappy, until every time we go home to visit. She then wants to move back and cries the whole 8 hours back. I want to pick up with her, go HOME, and never look back. My husband is my best friend, but lately I find myself looking at him through eyes of pure hatred. I don't have any advice, but wanted to let you know you are definitely not alone in your current situation.