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Old Dec 10, 2015, 07:36 PM
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Originally Posted by AnaWhitney View Post
Eh.. no definitely not. I barely speak to my parents. I behave like a cold hearted selfish ****** to keep them away because it's the only way to do so. I have never been in a relationship. Sex terrifies me. I can't even have a goodnight kiss without running away. After a couple of these moments I have learned to just avoid dating, it is too frightening. I don't have any real friends because I push all the potential ones away. Everyone who is nice scares me. So, no, definitely definitely not. Just to rule that out like!
Huh. Well, the good news is that it sounds like you have a healthy relationship with your T which will serve as a good model for other healthy relationships outside of therapy.

Another possibility is that it's some way your T is different than your former counselor. Not to blame transference on the counselor...but I do sometimes read stories on here where I think, "Wow. It almost seems like the T is encouraging this." Which, hey, some of them do. They make douchebags in all professions.
Thanks for this!
AnaWhitney