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Old Dec 11, 2015, 07:54 AM
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Originally Posted by ChipperMonkey View Post
And online friends... Facebook! Ugh! People are notorious for finding "friends" on there when they're.....bored.....and then when life picks up, they drop their online friends like a hot potato. I gave up on Facebook. I've tried to reach out to people and they've been non-responsive. I've had other online friends who stop messaging when they suddenly have other (better) things to do. I don't call that friendship. Yeah, I know that people need to be free to live their own lives, but at the same time, if a friend is ignoring you (for an extended period of time), is that person really a friend? Maybe this sounds harsh, but given my disorder (PTSD), I am prone to shut-downs. I've learned that when I shut down, I OWE it to people to let them know I'm not doing well. I mean how hard is it to text those few words? I honestly think that if I can't do the very basics, then I'm not strong enough to even have friends because its NOT fair to leave other people hanging like that.
This. Personally I treat facebook as a directory of contacts some of whom are friends most of whom are acquaintances, with this expectation I am never disappointed. My best friends aren't even on facebook, those are the ones who never leave me hanging on without an explanation.

I think sorting out in your head who your real friends are, and who are acquaintances may be helpful OP.
Thanks for this!
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