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Dec 11, 2015, 02:52 PM
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Member Since: Apr 2013
Location: Ontario Land
Posts: 3,592
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Originally Posted by rcat
I'm sure we've all been through it. Out of kindness we extend a charitable act to someone in need. But, that act backfires. Suddenly this person latches on to you, thinking you are now their best friend. They call repeatedly expecting you to do everything with them - AND FOR THEM.
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This is why I don't socialize outside of any type of support group. It sounds selfish but I have my own issues to deal with. There is nothing wrong with looking after your own needs. In another thread you stated you ran out of money for the month and have to survive off your credit card. Are you going to put yourself into more debt for this inconsiderate lady?
I once loaned a member $60 for "groceries". That good deed taught me to be very hesitant about others and their motives.
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