rcat, NO, two letters, one word. Learn to say it as politely as possible. Let her know you have others that really need help and you are not going to be used. And politely make an excuse and get off the phone. If she keeps calling then block her phone number, then get ahold of the group leader and let them know she is making a pest of herself. If you have to go to another women's group. Learn to say NO....tc