Pretender 79, are you pretending? If they argue and do not want to change, then what makes you think you can change them? You cannot. So if they will not change, are you willing to put up with them for the sake of the friendship or do you want better and feel you deserve better than that? God, grant me the serenity, to accept the things i cannot change, courage to change the things i can, and the wisdom to know the difference.
So, do you need to change your friends? Or your attitude in accepting them as they are? Blessings.