I just break it down in a very logical manner.
What do you get out of a relationship?
1. Social and Emotional Intimacy
You can get this from friendships, and all sorts of friendships, on various levels. There doesn't need to be any romance or sex in order to enjoy a fun, rewarding bond with someone.
2. Physical Intimacy (non-sexual)
That's what dogs and cats are for. They will happily cuddle up with you on the coach after work, warm and snuggly.
3. Sexual Intimacy
This is the one area where you have to make a compromise. Sort of. The "intimacy" in sexual intimacy is typically emotional. Again, you can get emotional intimacy outside of a romantic relationship. As far as sexual pleasure itself goes, get a vibrator and call it a day.
4. Entertainment
A good partner can be a source of laughs and interesting conversations. So can friends. Problem solved.
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