I need an opinion on what is going on in my situation. There is a new female in our church, (M) who wanted to start a bible study. She seemed nice and friendly when I first met her. She asked if we could use the study book that she started earlier, so I said that would be okay. The study was just the two of us, and we met only twice, as she cancelled at least three times, by texting me, each time with a different excuse, that she was too tired, or her kid was sick, or something similar. And then, she asked if we could take the rest of December off, and start in January again. I said that was okay. But--she is always at the prayer group that meets every week this past month--so why is she able to make that group, but not the bible study with me?? I now think she does not like me, so she made up excuses to not go to the bible study. Her personality is really hard for me to relate to; she cries at the drop of a hat, and she is SO focused on her current marriage and I don't have a relationship and don't care about discussing male-female relationships. Last night at the prayer group, another female (j) asked if she could join our bible study, and M said we were on a break. Then M told J and her husband, that she wanted to start a "married couples" bible study, because she wants to get her husband involved in church. I was thinking, what?! M is not able to meet with me, but now she wants to start a couples study? So, how do I back out of re-starting our previous bible study with M, in January? Should I wait for her to make the first move to re-schedule our study? I am really tired of dealing with her unreliability.