[QUOTE=KinkyGuy;4818351]Very true. I am now embracing the philosophy that this is all unreal and the only real thing is when we shed all the distractions in our lives and focus on the moment. Everything else is just a waste of time. It is liberating to know that NOTHING CAN HURT YOU unless your let it! When you are liberated there is nothing to hurt. The defenseless, suffering you is gone! I have been studying some Indian and Buddhist philosophies and it helps to center me. Of course I have my moments but when I sit in my garden and look at my flowers, it is all so laughable.[/QUOTEar

beliefs are dynamic they can change very quickly, just as you can apply nothingness you can apply everythingness