IMO, it's awfully tough to just tone down binge drinking and smoking. And, as you mentioned, the effects of alcohol and your BP meds don't mix together very well. Personally, I am an all-or-nothing kind of person. Otherwise, it's too easy for me to give in to having "one more", then another, and so on.

I hope that you're able to find the right cure for yourself soon. Best wishes sent your way!