You sound like you're young, 20's maybe. Overworked and underpaid. You're not alone and that makes forming relationships hard. I'd say take a deep breath and relax. You are not going to have a relationship like right now, like yesterday. Do you live in a city where you can take mass transit? Otherwise dating with no car is limiting. I suggest you find people you have common interests with, maybe volunteer, like Habitats for Humanity. Try to project a positive image and don't come across angry. There is someone out there for you.