I let my husband come back home after making him leave twice before....but his outburst and anger happened again quickly. First it was his cat that he has owned for 9 years. This cat named Tiger was peeing in my front room. Before we decided to get rid of him or toss him out the door like my husband suggested, we cleaned up the urine very well and then we used some pet detirent spray. I prayed about it because I wanted my husband to have his cat that loves him so much. It worked and Tiger has been doing fine since
Well the first fight was my husband telling me that I am more forgiving to the cat then I ever was to him. He said it made him hate his cat and he wanted to kill the cat. It took me hours of apologizing for nothing again to calm him down. The next episode was plastic candy canes that I bought to go in a tin bucket in front of the house. He wanted to push them down in gravel that he filled the bucket with but I suggested using larger stones and floral foam to avoid scratching the canes or breaking off the bottoms "the are only cheap plastic" he went off on me saying I care more about cheap candy canes then I do about people and he wanted to break them all so he never had to see them again, that was the start of my day! I was also making a turkey dinner for us, it was supposed to be our Thanksgiving turkey but we ate at his moms instead so I saved it. I worked hard all day to make a wonderful meal to which he started saying how lazy my son was and that it made him sick to his stomach to see how much I let my son get away with. He refused to eat with me and the kids so the kids ate alone while I tried to do damage control and settle him down.
so while all of this is happening he has been late to work twice and missed two days of work in a two week period, this would be his paycheck before Christmas. He is the only one working and that is how he wanted it yet he was on the verge of getting fired. So the next episode was me making a Christmas elf from poster board to hang on the wall next to our fireplace. It turned out great! I was very proud of it. I took a picture the next day and sent it to my daughters grandmother. He went off again saying I care more about her than him because I sent it to her first. He was there when I made the elf. It was bad and he was telling me that he was beyond angry and that his whole day was **** because I did that. I was sweating at this point and had the chills so bad I wanted to vomit. I told him I had to go to the grocery store and get something for dinner so when he went down to the basement I took both kids and left. We spent the night at my daughters grandparents and now it is today and he left with his clothing and went to his parents who are insisting that he get help or the are putting him in the hospital.
I almost forgot that our first dinner out together after he came home was to the local pizza shop. I ask him what he wanted to share and he said he didn't care and for me to pick so I opened the menu and say a tuna sub or an Italian one I turned the menu to him and said what do you think about Italian? Well I thought everything was fine until we got home and he said I never listen to him and push him when he doesn't want to be pushed and he never wants to eat there again because I cant listen. I was so sick I went upstairs and lost my dinner. He also insist that we are intimate twice a day and I am exhausted from it all. he works 4am till 1 pm so he wants the house in bed by 8 pm...
What does this sound like to everyone???? is this bipolar? What is this behavior??? I am disgusted by it all.