That's not bipolar. That's a personality disorder. Probably BPD. And it has taken on a malignant form, so that he is being emotionally abusive.
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Originally Posted by Ghaugh38
Well the first fight was my husband telling me that I am more forgiving to the cat then I ever was to him. He said it made him hate his cat and he wanted to kill the cat.
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So insecure and entitled that he compares himself to a cat. Guilt trips you over his irrational issues. Takes on sociopathic traits (violence towards animals) in nature, and also implies threats of violence in order to intimate you. Abusive, abusive, abusive.
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Originally Posted by Ghaugh38
he went off on me saying I care more about cheap candy canes then I do about people and he wanted to break them all so he never had to see them again
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Now not only he is jealous of cats, now he is jealous of candy canes. The absurdity grows so that he can try to make you feel even more guilty and afraid, again implying threats of violence and trying to make you feel like it's your fault. Abusive.
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Originally Posted by Ghaugh38
he started saying how lazy my son was and that it made him sick to his stomach to see how much I let my son get away with. He refused to eat with me and the kids so the kids ate alone while I tried to do damage control and settle him down.
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So now it's cats, candy canes and your son. Apparently everything from leaves on the ground to lint in your pockets is really part of your evil conspiracies and you should feel bad. But oh look it works, he acts abusive and then he gets special attention from you.
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Originally Posted by Ghaugh38
He went off again saying I care more about her than him because I sent it to her first. He was there when I made the elf. It was bad and he was telling me that he was beyond angry and that his whole day was **** because I did that.
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Cats, candy canes, your son and now your daughter. Tigers and lions and bears, oh my! More guilt tripping meant to make you feel terrible. Abusive.
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Originally Posted by Ghaugh38
Well I thought everything was fine until we got home and he said I never listen to him and push him when he doesn't want to be pushed and he never wants to eat there again because I cant listen.
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Have I mentioned that this stuff abusive yet? Just checking. Here we see proof that it has taken on a truly malignant form. He deliberately set you up, set a trap for you, so that he could later try to make you feel like a terrible person and fabricate reasons to be mad at you.
TL; DR - He's an abuser and it will only get worse.