Actually, no, he doesn't say that. I don't have a tendency to chase men who aren't interested. I didn't continue the story after my last post so although from a few posts it might seem that way and I can certainly understand how you may reach that conclusion. However, it isn't the whole picture of who I am. With my last relationship, with the man who had BPD, I ended the relationship after he came back. I didn't add that part of the story.

He was actually quite interested, in the end, but I broke up with him. He was very distant in the beginning because he was preoccupied by a death in the family. His cousin had committed suicide just a month before I had met him and his mood was everywhere.

I go for men that have shared interests and values and that I am physically attracted to. At this age, unfortunately, there are many who are bruised and aren't as ready to jump into a relationship as when they were 25. This man just got divorced, I communicated to him that I wanted a relationship. He didn't. I ended it due to that.

I am just tired of disappointment...

But to answer your question, yeah, I have a brilliant career. I am finishing my master's degree and will be starting an internship with the United Nations in June. I also have wonderful friends, I am involved in social and environmental activism in my city. I weight train, I love to travel and I hike quite a bit. I have a very quirky sense of humour, also (which is why I started off the thread with the boy thing...please, don't read into it any further).

Life is great, actually, but then I meet men and it always seems like a disaster and then I just want to throw in the towel.

I have tried online dating. I don't like it, although, in the past, I did meet interesting people and learned social skills.