We get overwhelmed w day to day tasks, from that lack of being able to make decisions because of too much input. One of our most commom complaints is that it can take anything up to 2 hrs to stack - just stack - the dishwasher. Let alone sort clothes for the laundry to be done, deciding on making tea, or what room to vacuum first. As a consequence, alot doesnt get done at all, much to the angst of my husband. My mother helps me sometimes, but she has stopped as she thinks shes enabling me to have a dirty household and to be 'lazy'. If only they had the constant debating going on in their head. Glad you guys here understand.