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Originally Posted by divine1966
Same as above poster I also found it rather interesting you referred to 50 year old "boy". My BF is 50. Sure I use affectionate words that a bit of baby talk but I never referred to him as a "boy". My exhusband is same age and again I never think of him as a boy. I don't even think of my nephew or son in law as boys and they are in their 20s. I wonder where it comes from
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Wow, I had written something and it is all gone into cyberspace, Le Sigh.
As I had mentioned before, I have a quirky sense of humour and the boy thing is just something I say every now and then. I can definitely see how it can be interpreted in a different way as said quirkyness isn't easily felt on a message board. I assure you though, he is far from being a boy. He is a very interesting man with a great career. He is a well known journalist here in Canada (where I am from) and he also works for a social justice organization. We are both involved in activism. He has 4 children and was with the same woman for 25 years, which is probably why, at this point, he doesn't want to dive into a serious relationship. In fact, he told me that right now, he just wants to get laid.
So...do I want to be physical with him? Heck yeah! Do I want to be that one who is the receptacle of his wild oats, his rebound, etc? Nope. I want to be physically intimate with a boyfriend, not a casual fling. So, really, in the end, it isn't a bad thing that he doesn't want to pursue something with me.
Sorry if I wasn't totally clear in my initial posting.