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Old Dec 13, 2015, 10:50 AM
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My reason for venting echoes what George said. It's a way to let off steam. Some times I do it with friends, some times I do it here. Used to be I self-injured. I find doing it verbally or in writing is healthier for me. A friend of mine used to encourage me to write e-mails to the person I was mad at, only send it to him. It allowed me to express my anger and "send it away" without getting me in trouble for ripping someone's head off.

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I'm wondering if that has the potential to do more harm than good.
George, if I'm understanding you correctly, you are wondering if venting can do more harm than good. Sometimes. If a person doesn't find other ways of coping and their go-to reaction is to rant and rave they are holding themselves back.
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