Imstarlord, never tell your friends how you feel. People have a big mouth. Lesson learned. And if it has then talk to her and explain how you feel. You cannot hide what has been made known. To not talk about it makes it uncertain to her where she stands with you. You have to clarify with her it is just friends so she won't feel cornered or trapped. And if you cannot handle this and are obsessing about her, then you have lost a friend needlessly because you feared clarifying something you should have the moment it was out of the bag. Talk to her and make it clear, just friends. If you want more than that, then move on. tc