You asked:

I am just curious why you suggest the narrow age range? I am 45, but I look much younger than my age. I am approached by all sorts of men of different ages. I do prefer men my age or a bit older. As a 45 year old, I don't find a 50 year old guy to be too old.

W is how you describe him, however, since he got divorced I don't think he is ready to be in a serious relationship. He was with the same woman for 25 years, he just wants to get laid. "

The answer is in your last sentence. Divorced men this man's age just want to get laid, and frequently by women younger to much younger than themselves. I've just found that men who are divorced later in their married lives are rather more damaged than I want to take on. A man who was happily married who loses his wife to death often wants to commit to a long term stable relationship because he enjoyed it the first time. A 40-something man, particularly one who has not already been married, might be just at the time in his life where he has experienced enough that he knows now he wants a long-term committed relationship.