I do EMDR with one of my t, and I have no where near the attachment with her that I do with other t. One of the great things about EMDR (for me) is that a session consists of finding a target memory-which can be something that happened the last week-and then just letting my mind wander. So I am not pushed to be vulnerable or dependent on t. And since I have dependent PD, it is pretty amazing that I am not dependent on her.