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Originally Posted by ChipperMonkey
Society is shallow?
Uhm, yeah. And that's an understatement!
If you're not what they want, then they see you as a reject and want nothing to do with you. Speaking from personal experience. I gave up on the whole relationship bit because yeah, people are shallow. And when I think about it, even when I am in a better place in life, why would I want these stupid people? If I am down on my luck again, they'd just leave me, on the same token that they reject me now. I say eff them all. Do what you want to do and don't worry about relationships. Find a steady person to hook up with every so often. Its nice because there's no expectations, no control element (that comes with every relationship whether or not anyone wants to admit to it!)
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that's what I'm doing already. Btw weird fact, I smoke hookah and weed, but I own a hookah collection and I enjoy it a lot was going to work at a hookah bar with people I was friends with.
The weird fact is, I don't like girls who heavily drink or only chain smoke cigarettes so much that's all they do like nothing else. My last relationship was like that. This girl would literally go smoke every 20 minutes for about smoking about 4 cigs she go through 5 packs to sometimes 10 in a day. It was frustrating. So I like smokers and non smokers, just I don't smoke nearly as much as I claim to. I have my limits too, and I have a rule when I have my own place again, is that, I can't let people leave alcohol in my house, so when they bring their own stuff, they have to take it with them or if it's empty bottles of beer or just liquor whatever it has to be in recycling and after a get together and party I do not want my fridge covered in alcohol left over. I don't mind drinking, but in excess I can't stand it from anyone that's how a girl if I was dating would instantly make me break up with them, if they have a problem. I dealt with it once before and I'm not doing it again.