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Old Dec 13, 2015, 04:29 PM
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Twenty minutes. T left for twenty minutes to deal with that other client in crisis. I agreed to it; I just didn't realize it wasn't okay with me until five minutes in. Our session had already started--we were fifteen minutes in.

Twenty minutes T left, after that. Then we finished our last fifteen.

Then T comes back and tells me I feel like a burden because of
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Maybe. Maybe T just sucks.

I wonder how that crisis person is doing. Was twenty minutes enough to stabilize them? Am I selfish for resenting them taking my time?

Jesus. Has this happened to you?
Did she make up the time lost?

As for needing a new T maybe you do. I resisted strongly breaking away from my T, but now that I have ts like a breath of fresh air. I resented her SO MUCH. If you build up too much resentment (deserved or not) you will not be able to get any work done.)