When we were in our 20's, he took me out after not seeing me for months (his usual pattern) and asked me to marry him. I had just started dating the man that I married. I told him I had finally met a guy who was there for me and consistent and that I wanted to give that a chance. He hugged me and wished me well. That was the last time I saw him. When we reconnected 20 years later, he didn't remember that conversation ever happening! Lol, omg