It was such a bizarre relationship that I think I never got over it because I am so traumatized. I let him treat me so strangely, use me, but he seemed to really care for me. He said to me 'I heard the wedding bells and I ran!". I know, he didn't run from the wedding bells he heard with the woman he eventually married. I got married years before him, lthough. My mother wouldn't let me advertise my wedding in the paper because she was afraid he was going to show up at the wedding and have a scene like from The Graduate. Wasn't just him, could have been a few boyfriends to play the Dustin Hoffman role. I was a dizzy young broad. Also, he was a pot head, Coke addict musician. I smoked pot with him, but never did Coke. Auto correct spelled Coke (I don't mean the soda :-)

Oh well, 50 years old and still just a dizzy broad...