He keeps his female friends a secret. When I am finally introduced (because I came home from work early or showed up at a place where I wasn't expected) its like a mass panic, he talks really fast, then runs off or tells me to get out of here. My kids are the ones who tell me that they have been over. I have confronted him in the past about cheeting and he says he isn't that they are just friends. I think he is cheating on me. He never takes me out. Never does anything for me. Never gives me time to go out. He shows up from work 4-6 hours late and says he is at the bar watching a football game. If I ask him to come home to watch the kids for something he refuses and tells me that I should just take them with me since he has brought them to the doctors. He makes a ton more money than me but refuses to pay for his own stuff like his car insurance. He tells me that I am greedy and selfish and all I care about is money when he cares about people. I do not feel that he cares about me. I think he has been taking advantage of me.