Hello there. Relax, breathe, exhale. This is not a race. This is your life and what do you really want is what matters. So go out together to a movie and grab a bite to eat. That is something normal people do. And then you can hang out and chat or whatever. You instinctively know after 3 outtings if you are attracted to the other person sexually or not. And that is about the size of it. Don't get together out of curiosity. Not is not right nor fair. There are people that are just snuggle and hug buddies. Yes, that is true! There are many different types of people in the world. Just be kind to yourself and quit trying to figure it all out. I hope this advice helps. tc