"If I wait until then, I'll have a few vacation days, and two days for Thanksgiving to recover, and I won't have to miss work. Losing any pay right now would be devastating to the family. I'd just rather take my chances. "

Sweetpea....I have a feeling that when your family hears this genius plan, they may just change your mind. Taking care of your family involves more than simply bringing in a paycheck for a particular one or two month. Taking care of your family means doing everything in your power to stay with them, healthy and strong, to share your love and support, as long as possible.

This means getting this biopsied and treated ASAP. There is no wiggle room in there honey. None.

Emmy's got her thigh-high boots on and is kicking some butt now. No more nice girl. Kisses.