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Originally Posted by DBTDiva
Give yourself some credit, even if they can't!
Your kids are adults
They are hopefully mature enough to know that it's never just ONE person's problem. You and your ex-wife both made mistakes.
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I quoted this part, yes, this! I'm an adult, watching from the sidelines my father and second wife still going through divorce proceedings, this has been going on for almost two years. And yes, I'm tossing in his second wife of 25 years. As an adult and someone that has observed a multitude of varying relationship circumstances, I find it tomfoolery to even begin to choose sides. If a marriage cannot survive, it wasn't because of just one individual.
I omitted the "they'll come around " part, not for argument, but because if their own sense of logic isn't there, there's truly no guarantee. You may have the mi that you have, OP, but that doesn't preclude others around you from having something of their own.
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