I hear you. The loneliness stings particularly acutely this time of year. All the pretty lights and festive atmosphere and talk of love and peace... Somehow it pierces straight to the core, right?

Still, you say you have a good education, a successful career, financial independence and physical attractiveness. Those are very good things -- all of which I lack! Oh man, what I wouldn't give for a successful career and financial independence! Though I'm 31, I still live in my parents' basement and depend on them for everything. Oh, and I'm ugly to boot

We've all got our challenges and troubles -- some more than others. So I think you should take your own advice and be happy for what you have! And realize that you are certainly not alone in your loneliness and depression.