There's always smoke and mirrors they use to try to get you to forget that they hurt you. If they could just wipe our memories they'd be doing it all the time.
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Originally Posted by Miktis25
But abusers do this - they do their utmost to appear as the most kindest person you could ever meet, with such unbelievable acts of niceness, so that we think these thoughts and continue to stay around them. It's just a tool to make it harder for us to escape
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Every "charitable act" my father ever committed was so he could say "Look what I did for you." Then he could complain that he gives and gives and world takes and takes. A martyr. "The world is ungrateful," he says, while he shoves more money in the pocket of the next person he hopes to manipulate.