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Originally Posted by MissFiona
Hi there,
I'm really puzzled about the actions of my former very N trait partner. The relationship broke down about 6 months ago to the point of no return but I also was employed by him. I kept my job and minded my own business but he was displaying very toxic behaviour not towards me but around me where I could witness it. I decided to quit - the contract I was on runs out end of January 2015. I asked for my letter of reference and my letter of dismissal on the spot - he turned around and said he would pay me until the end of the contract as agreed but not to bother coming to work again.
He has been paying me fortnightly. I'm really puzzled? He is not the type to pay someone to do nothing? I have had no contact nor have I wanted to make contact with him. Any insights would be greatly appreciated :-)
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Wow, what a whacky thing to tell you. Maybe he's not paying you for nothing...he's paying to position you in a place that he's more comfortable with. The decision was definitely made to benefit him in some way.
The narcissist boss who sleeps with employees, boy am I familiar with that. I didn't see here who broke up with whom. Was it totally mutual? Was there a new love interest? Because there's the possibility that he just doesn't want to face you. The narc in my life would pay ANYTHING not to have his face rubbed in "failure." He has the money and power, so he doesn't have to be in uncomfortable situations like that. When his ex-wife joined facebook, he blocked FB from all the work computers because he felt like that would keep all his employees from friending her and seeing her posts because she was apparently happy ... he didn't want us to think she was happy without him.